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Post by scrover on Jun 7, 2008 19:39:42 GMT 12
>:(so true frankie i really enjoy coming here and having fun also not that i go into the games but just enjoy company
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Post by amberjem on Jun 7, 2008 21:30:22 GMT 12
And that is a real shame, Scrover. I for one, enjoy coming in here, playing the games (gets the "grey-matter" functioning) and generally having a bit of fun. There are a number of people that I like to inter-act with, but now I can't even see if they're around. I prefer to see who is on as well.
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Post by Roderick on Jun 7, 2008 23:06:27 GMT 12
Sorry scrover and frankie , i have been involved in real life more today and haven't been online a lot...you would be suprised at what we see and hear as moderators....we get opinions and complaints that never go any further , and i like to try and be as impartial as possible , ...even when many are saying we are not...that can't be helped and is part of the territory... we have had many attempts at sorting out this continuing drama , and many have tried with no success...last nite i decided that it was time to bring things to a head as it is like a cancer , or a boil festering away......i do not want or agree with having your own thread and banning people from it...that is a sc idea...surfingranny tried to implement it as one of our attempts at a cure , but it was not overly successful , and i was not happy with that concept / arrangement...anyway...i started the ball rolling , and waited for reactions...and they came from about 4/5 directions...and i tried to sort out the real from the others...my focus was on kiwi as the prime instigator of these ongoing problems , and knowing the full background and endless to'ing and fro'ing that we had tried , i saw kiwis post that he said he would take time out to consider if he wanted to continue his membership of Zambuka...i saw the opportunity for Zambuka to also have the oppotunity of whether we wanted to host his never ending feud with rose...so i pushed the ban button , and that is where we are now at...no ongoing feud...and kiwi can consider his stance/position , as can Zambuka...the 30 days is just a number...the ban will stay in place until we are totally satisfied that the matter is ended or we assume there is no reconciliation going to eventuate...i'm sorry that things have had to come to this position , but we are totally fed up with the snide baiting/remarks/deliberate ignoring/etc that many have seen and commented on...for the last 4 or so weeks we have been allowing things to happen as we awaited some real solid event , but we found it was not as clear cut as that , so i decided to act on last nights situation as it was presented. kiwi posted that he may or may not leave , and he was going to consider his position...Zambuka is also now considering our position.
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Post by scrover on Jun 8, 2008 20:58:32 GMT 12
sorry player but that doesnt wash with me i have only been a member for a short time and have watched how thing go in here and if you are going to ban one then ban the other they could be or are as bad as each other but cmon get your head around things i know if you dont sort things out soon you will lose this wonderful site we are adults for goodness sake so get your head out of the sand if things dont improve soon i will also looking at my memebership we are alowed to debate so cmon get it together
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Post by perfectlittlelil on Jun 8, 2008 21:23:17 GMT 12
I fully agree. It takes two to tangle. If one gets ban so should the other. And for the same amount of time as well. If me and someone else pulled that I expect that same thing to happen, banned both of us for the same amount of time.
Sorry player but I see it as double standards.
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Post by Mamalicious on Jun 9, 2008 10:07:49 GMT 12
bumpppppppppppppppppppp!!!!
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Post by caronz on Jun 9, 2008 10:09:07 GMT 12
;D Yay its back - thanks
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Post by caronz on Jun 9, 2008 10:45:17 GMT 12
I fully agree. It takes two to tangle. If one gets ban so should the other. And for the same amount of time as well. If me and someone else pulled that I expect that same thing to happen, banned both of us for the same amount of time. Sorry player but I see it as double standards. bumped again .............. this comment
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Post by Roderick on Jun 9, 2008 13:54:47 GMT 12
sorry player but that doesnt wash with me i have only been a member for a short time and have watched how thing go in here and if you are going to ban one then ban the other they could be or are as bad as each other but cmon get your head around things i know if you dont sort things out soon you will lose this wonderful site we are adults for goodness sake so get your head out of the sand if things dont improve soon i will also looking at my memebership we are alowed to debate so cmon get it together Sorry...but last time you were going to leave because we had too many debates... ...happy birthday...i couldn't resist that memory
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Post by Roderick on Jun 9, 2008 13:56:45 GMT 12
Some went and started the Dramafreezone where you were not allowed to debate.... .....And those debates were what established Zambuka...We sorted out the ongoing problems with Trolls...and we had a settled site...where reasonable debate is not a problem...but picking on farmers (or anyone else) always will be...is that clear enough for everyone
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Post by Mamalicious on Jun 9, 2008 14:05:59 GMT 12
I don't think anyone else is picking on farmers about this...there was an argument between the two of them, kiwi was banned and she wasn't...this is the issue!!!...
your reason for giving kiwi the holiday was because he threatened to anyway but yet in the same sentence you say its because of there fighting...sooo which is it...make up your mind!
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Post by Roderick on Jun 9, 2008 15:00:45 GMT 12
we will leave this for today please hun...we are unable to agree , so nothing changes in the meantime...threads to holding in the meantime
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Post by caronz on Jun 9, 2008 15:22:50 GMT 12
So this is in hiding, hoping no one comes looking for them
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Post by Roderick on Jun 9, 2008 15:45:09 GMT 12
if i wanted to hide it carohun...i could have..it is put here to still be accessed but to not dominate the forum...could go to contro for the same reason...but it is just on hold until tomorrow maybe...i've had enough of it all today...i was ready to drop the ban before , but as things won't resolve themselves peacefully , i have no real choice that to continue until something changes...
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Post by Mamalicious on Jun 9, 2008 15:53:37 GMT 12
rubbish...of course you have a choice...you were ready to drop kiwis ban but let farmers get off scott free...you really think that is being fair??
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