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Post by ydekm on Dec 10, 2008 14:38:12 GMT 12
Question: How does this thread make any of you, any better than the "feathered carrion eaters" in SC? You are doing exactly the same thing. Nope, we're not. Whilst we may be discussing them somewhere besides Smile City, we're even with them, as they also have a forum somewhere for their own discussions. The difference is in how we behave towards others...... Doesnt make you any better than them Yochana. By all means run them down, but don't pretend you're any different that those you are bitching about. While you might find their opinions negative and hurtful at least they are honest about it. You can't cry that they are treating you badly and then do the same thing behind closed doors.... I thought you were better than that.
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Post by tikva on Dec 10, 2008 18:04:05 GMT 12
When I am accused of being a Liar by one of them, as well as of being the abuser instead of the abused, then all bets are off as far as I am concerned. Yes, I can be better than that, but after putting up with the same crap time after time after time after time, I've decided to not be the little doormat any more.
And I am different ~ if any one of them ever posted a message looking for support or advice, I would treat them as I would any other member. And of course I am honest about my opinions on SC ~ they know exactly how I feel about them!
YDEKM ~ All I have ever wanted is for them to just leave me alone, and I have in fact asked them to do so. I posted a Truce thread at SC, and only one of the Members involved in the past difficulties accepted it, and I have honoured it where that member is concerned.
And let's be completely honest here, they will be saying much worse behind their private & 'closed doors'.
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Post by ctd on Dec 10, 2008 18:33:57 GMT 12
Sorry Yochana but all I hear is childish logic. You aren't better than them - you are the same - petty and childish. You go on about being a doormat, and not being a victim anymore... you are a victim because you let them get to you. And you respond in kind.
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Post by ydekm on Dec 10, 2008 18:34:35 GMT 12
Obviously that was me - not ctd. Sorry didn't realise he was still logged in.
I dont want a shit fight with you Yochana. But I will continue to point out when people are being hypocrites... and to bitch about people because you think they are doing it first, is silly and I thought you were better than that.
If anything, I should be joining in. You laid a complaint about me at my work once - much more personal than bitching about people you don't really know on an online forum to make yourself feel better.
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 10:06:31 GMT 12
I DID NOT LAY A COMPLAINT ABOUT YOU! I said I was going to, but I didn't!!!! And please show me where I have called anyone a hypocrite? ?? I don't want a bitch fight either ~ but like I keep saying, I want TRUTH. And what you have just posted is an example of the misinterpretations of things said that make them untruthful.
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 10:11:01 GMT 12
Also, if you want to discuss this further, where there are no limitations on what you can post, then you're more than welcome to sign up at the website I am creating where there is a Forum specifically for this kind of thing (Fight Club - Unmoderated). The URL is www.kiwicommunity.co.nz
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Post by ctd on Dec 11, 2008 11:40:21 GMT 12
Ummm Yochana she didnt say you were calling anyone a hypocrite she was saying you were being one yourself.... which I agree.... you moan and lament the FCE's (the lames term I have ever heard) for constantly bitching about you and to you yet here you are.... doing it all over again.
It doesnt matter where it takes place you are still doing it.
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 16:03:33 GMT 12
Where have I moanded and lamented the FCE's for constantly bitching about me? Come on! I'm getting sick of constantly being accused of bullshit, and no matter how often I try to get the same point across, pig-headedness gets in the way.
Let me make this very clear. People can bitch about me all they like ~ it's when they LIE about me, make false accusations, and deliberately target any thread I make that is even slightly personal and post their vitriolic messages that takes this to a whole different level. But the MOST important thing to me is the TRUTH. I will say it again, just in case you or anyone else is STILL unable to comprehend ~ IT IS ABOUT THE TRUTH.
And as long as the lies are still out there, I will continue to defend myself and take whatever action I deem necessary to prove what is and is not truth.
And so fcuking what if I'm bitching (as you call it, not me) about them here? Got a problem with that? If you have, then check my avatar.
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 16:39:51 GMT 12
Oh, and prior to CTD's post in this thread which was in response to one of mine, I challenge you to find a thread here in which I am bitching about them. Also, I post here knowing full well who are Members here, and also know full well that anyone can see what I post. Don't see you and yours doing that, do we?
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Post by ydekm on Dec 11, 2008 18:38:40 GMT 12
This thread is bitching about them - and you used to be better than this.
And you did complain, but I dont want to go into that here. I shouldn't have mentioned it.
And "you and yours" ?? Slightly paranoid I think Yochana. I am a member of Smilecity (which I am banned from until May 2009), here and trademe. Nowhere else.
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Post by Mamalicious on Dec 11, 2008 20:04:43 GMT 12
Ok sandpit is closed, cut it out!!!
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 22:35:13 GMT 12
This thread is bitching about them - and you used to be better than this. And you did complain, but I dont want to go into that here. I shouldn't have mentioned it. And "you and yours" ?? Slightly paranoid I think Yochana. I am a member of Smilecity (which I am banned from until May 2009), here and trademe. Nowhere else. Did I start this thread? No. Please post any posts in Zambuka that you can find in which I am 'bitching' about them. I have checked all my posts myself, and by my definition, NOT ONE is bitching about them. Back your claims up ~ for once. And regarding the You and Yours comment, it is well known on both SC and here that you and those whom I refer to as the FCE's, communicate with one another beyond these places, in a place similar to Zambuka, but private. No, I'm not paranoid at all ~ I just happen to KNOW about this, for a fact. Also, I did NOT complain ~ you and I sorted the issues out via one of those instant messengers at the time. So, all you have done, is perpetuate more lies and misinformation. And I thought YOU were better than that. Mamma, I apologise for this, but as long as the lies and misinformation continue, I have no choice but to respond, even if others think otherwise.
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Post by tikva on Dec 11, 2008 22:45:55 GMT 12
I never feel comfortable when I see people being all nicey-nicey to someone and then spot them saying wicked things when they think that person doesn't see/hear it. At least if you're going to slay someone's character, let them know you're doing it so they have a right of reply! If that is directed at me, Queen Cherry, I hardly think I fit into the category of being 'nicey-nicey' to certain people, and I post here in the knowledge that what I post is more than likely also read by any one of those certain people. I will however always try to be polite to others, even when in the past we have had our differences, or I personally dislike them. And whether here or at SC, I will respond differently if they choose to take it to that level.
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Post by ydekm on Dec 12, 2008 7:29:56 GMT 12
This thread is bitching about them - and you used to be better than this. And you did complain, but I dont want to go into that here. I shouldn't have mentioned it. And "you and yours" ?? Slightly paranoid I think Yochana. I am a member of Smilecity (which I am banned from until May 2009), here and trademe. Nowhere else. Did I start this thread? No. Please post any posts in Zambuka that you can find in which I am 'bitching' about them. I have checked all my posts myself, and by my definition, NOT ONE is bitching about them. Back your claims up ~ for once. And regarding the You and Yours comment, it is well known on both SC and here that you and those whom I refer to as the FCE's, communicate with one another beyond these places, in a place similar to Zambuka, but private. No, I'm not paranoid at all ~ I just happen to KNOW about this, for a fact. Also, I did NOT complain ~ you and I sorted the issues out via one of those instant messengers at the time. So, all you have done, is perpetuate more lies and misinformation. And I thought YOU were better than that. Mamma, I apologise for this, but as long as the lies and misinformation continue, I have no choice but to respond, even if others think otherwise. I am not a member of any other forum. You can ask whoever you consider "mine" (I think you'd be suprised who I'm NOT friendly with). I haven't perpetuated anything. What's the point of lying?
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Post by Queen Cherry on Dec 12, 2008 10:55:21 GMT 12
I never feel comfortable when I see people being all nicey-nicey to someone and then spot them saying wicked things when they think that person doesn't see/hear it. At least if you're going to slay someone's character, let them know you're doing it so they have a right of reply! If that is directed at me, Queen Cherry, I hardly think I fit into the category of being 'nicey-nicey' to certain people, and I post here in the knowledge that what I post is more than likely also read by any one of those certain people. I will however always try to be polite to others, even when in the past we have had our differences, or I personally dislike them. And whether here or at SC, I will respond differently if they choose to take it to that level. Nup, not directed at anyone! Nobody's ever succeeded in dragging me into a fight - I'm too damn' chicken... I was purely making a statement. I have no idea what you 3 are actually arguing about! I'll go away and hide my head under a blanket I think... or at least stay out of explosive threads...
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