Post by Roadhog on Aug 30, 2009 17:50:17 GMT 12
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blackfiresoul
30/08/2009 4:54:50 PM ive been with my partner for 1 1/2 years now but i dont know whats going on with him, because he's perfectly fine when hes around me,
but i only see him about once a week now & everytime i make plans 2 see him he has something else to do & i hardly ever see him.
he has no time management skills and never seems to have time to see me anymore
we fight continuously over the stupidest things that arent even important.
and it turns out im pregnant and i dont know hw to tell him coz im afraid he'll bail coz he cant handle it
HELP Report this post
shirleyc2
30/08/2009 5:12:08 PM Sounds like he's gone cold on you. You have to tell him you are pregnant and if he bales then do you really want him around if he doesn't love you? Do you have any family who can support you in this situation. Report this post
farmers SmileCity Gold Member300+ exp
30/08/2009 5:17:38 PM You need to tell him you are preg, even if he has gone a bit cold, he has the right to know he's going to be a father, see how he reacts from there....Heck were you using protection? Too many get preg in unstable relationships Report this post
Pricey7
30/08/2009 5:18:48 PM He's screwing your best friend/sister/mother/all of the above.
Cut your losses, or risk becoming a loser.
blackfiresoul
30/08/2009 4:54:50 PM ive been with my partner for 1 1/2 years now but i dont know whats going on with him, because he's perfectly fine when hes around me,
but i only see him about once a week now & everytime i make plans 2 see him he has something else to do & i hardly ever see him.
he has no time management skills and never seems to have time to see me anymore
we fight continuously over the stupidest things that arent even important.
and it turns out im pregnant and i dont know hw to tell him coz im afraid he'll bail coz he cant handle it
HELP Report this post
shirleyc2
30/08/2009 5:12:08 PM Sounds like he's gone cold on you. You have to tell him you are pregnant and if he bales then do you really want him around if he doesn't love you? Do you have any family who can support you in this situation. Report this post
farmers SmileCity Gold Member300+ exp
30/08/2009 5:17:38 PM You need to tell him you are preg, even if he has gone a bit cold, he has the right to know he's going to be a father, see how he reacts from there....Heck were you using protection? Too many get preg in unstable relationships Report this post
Pricey7
30/08/2009 5:18:48 PM He's screwing your best friend/sister/mother/all of the above.
Cut your losses, or risk becoming a loser.
